I finally learned...

At 31 you revise for many things & quarantine found me with 31 on my hands.

As a true Taurean - with a Gemini rising that spoils things for me a bit - I've started to reconsider what I want from a relationship!

The truth is, I always knew what I wanted from a relationship.

Even though I haven't found it yet - now I know even more what exactly I want and where to look for it.

Of course, don't forget that a new love can always come to you unexpectedly.

Because as long as you chase it, it never comes - that's for sure.

At 31 you revise for many things!

So what reviews should you make when you pass your first year?
  • You finally erase that glorious past. You don't need to cry anymore, nor scratch your wounds. What happened is happened and the lessons you learned are valuable so that you don't repeat it again.
  • You make a list of your wants, with the general goals you will set and little by little you will try to achieve them.
  • Stop looking for the right person in the wrong places and in the wrong groups. Expand your circle, don't stay in just one group, go out and meet people.
  • Don't expect love to be outside your door and ring the bell. It always comes from where you least expect it.
  • You now have to think about whether you want a family or if you want to dedicate yourself to your professional career, and this is important to me because a lot will depend on this decision.
  • You are now 30 and your mind should be in its place as my mom says and unfortunately we are not 18 to be party animals. After all, every age has its own charms.

For me, turning 31 marks a new beginning.

Perhaps the most crucial because I have to finally decide what I want to do.

And what do I want from a relationship, because my friends, it doesn't hold us accountable for other mistakes.

Nor should we make relationships ephemeral and meaningless without a future and perspective.

Unless you belong to the category of those who still want to have a good time without obligations hanging over your head.

So think about what you want and take life into your own hands!

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